How to Pick Up Women in Bars & Pick Up Girls in Clubs

You know what's an ironic thing about picking up women, and men's outlook on it? Clubs and bars have got to be the easiest place in the world to pick up women. But at the same time, its the place where guys fail the hardest. How can this be the case? The reason for this is that most guys don't understand WHY clubs and bars are such a great place to meet girls and pick them up.

You see, the REAL reason why these places are so great is that they are a social event. Its like meeting a girl at a friend's birthday party, its a lot less intimidating then walking across the street and saying hi. But the reason men miss this is because they're so busy glorifying the club. They walk in, ogle the sexily dressed women and think "oh wow, I gotta have her!". That's what screws you up man! That's what makes you come across as creepy and have women instantly shut you down. They don't shut you down because they're mean people. No, in fact, if a guy approached you in the street the way guys approach girls in clubs, you'd brush him off too. They literally look all creepy, and like they're about to attack or rob the woman. Either that, or they act all hyper and try to say funny and interesting things in a rapid fashion and bombard her...

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In a nutshell, they don't act NORMAL

How to Pick Up Women in Bars & Pick Up Girls in Clubs

These guys act... Weird. Just simply weird. The greatest trick I've found in studying guys who do wonders in this clubs environment is their mindset. I mean they come in all shapes and sizes. Short, young, old, ugly, model-handsome and just plain average. What they all have in common though is how they act. They act as if its their best friend's birthday party!

I know this sounds all new-agey to you, but bare with me. If you convince yourself its just a social event with acquaintances, you'll act normal. You'll act your most attractive, real self. And your real self is what women are attracted to. Don't be sucked into fancy gimmicks online that sell you ways to appear different by saying and doing contrived things. You don't need any of these things if you just get yourself right.

Those guys will tell you that in order to pick up women you have to be different than a normal guy. You're not supposed to ask normal questions like "how are you" or "where do you study" and all that. Well that is true... for THEM. Its only true for them because their hunter-vibe is so apparent that the only way they can prevent a girl from shutting them out - is entertaining her.

Let me ask you something... Has a woman ever shut you out and turned her back on you at a private party or in class? Like if you start talking to a girl in Yoga Class, does she do that? Does it matter what you say? Heck, you can ask the most usual thing like how did you like the cass, or when did you signup. She's still going to be super-attracted to you if you're charming.

Well, the same thing happens to me when picking up girls in bars and clubs. I do ask the most usual, most non-special questions and topics, and I get better results than most "gurus" online. The reason is that my mindset is right. I'm treating her as if I've known her for years, or seen her around.

So how do you cause attraction then?

The question is how do you then go from approaching her, and charming her, to taking her home? Its simple really, too simple for guys to want to know the real answer. Just the fact that you're confident enough to approach her, and be so normal and casual blows her mind. Every other guys is either creepy, scared, horny or a wannabe-sleazy-playa... and as of late, maybe a PUA-kiddie. Just you being confident enough to be normal, charming and charismatic blows her attraction through the roof. You're confident enough to not have to do anything to attract her, and that's hot.

As you two are talking, and you keep meeting women around her, and introducing yourself to other people in the club, she'll get more and more interested. The best thing to grow her sexual attraction is not some elaborate technique. Its simply being the most social guy in the place. If you continually leave her to go greet other hot girls, and meet other folks, she'll go mad with desire. In fact, she's guaranteed to start hitting on your or trying to get your attention. This is where you tease her about it, as you continue being social and meeting other folks. You're basically going from one group to another, and just doing this with several girls at once.

When she really ramps up the interest, you just ask her if she's coming home with you or not. In a casual, nonchalant way. Mind you, this is while you're working on 10 other super-hot women at the same time, who all are driven mad by now. You don't care which one says yes, because from the 10, one is sure to say yes, so its jut a formality. You don't care which one it is. You're like whatever "are you the one coming home?", knowing full well you got 9 others waiting on you.

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